Ignorance Is Bliss

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Ignorance Is Bliss?

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Ten Reasons Why Born Again Christians Should Be Fighting FOR Gay Marriage

Ten Reasons Why Born Again Christians Should Be Fighting FOR Gay Marriage

Based on the articles of the same name.

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Ten Reasons Why Born Again Christians Should Be Fighting For Gay Marriage, Part Two

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Ten Reasons Why Born Again Christians Should Support Gay Marriage

I recently shared part one of this article which contained reasons ten through six on why a born again Christian should be fighting for gay marriage.    Those reasons spoke to realizing the spirit of “peace on earth, goodwill to our fellows” and similar principles in the lives of Born Again Christians if they supported gay marriage.

Now here we are and I am buying you a second cup of coffee with more urgency than before.   I don’t mean to be dramatic, but while the first five reasons were around immediate effects of acceptance , reasons five through one speak directly to the Christian legacy and the souls of its believers.

The 5th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     Morality.     Some Christians believe that by declaring homosexuality to be a sin, and gay marriage a travesty, that they have answered the moral question and the issue is settled.  It isn’t.

Those wishing to be “good gay people”  have to grow their rules organically since they have been shut out of “morality” by this judgment.  So an alternative set of rules develops with the alternate environment influencing the mainstream, potentially unraveling guarded precepts.  If Born Again Christians want a say in defining the ultimate morality in partner relationships, they need to embrace gay marriage and contribute their voice.

The 4th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     Family.     In 1950 78% of families were lead by married couples.  In 2010, that figure was 48%.  Not only does that mean that the anti-gay marriage definition of what constitutes a family is now the minority, it means that it is disintegrating and a steady pace.  Families therefore are being redefined.  That is not a threat for Born Again Christians, it is a factual reality.  To pretend it is not happening and  attack the people who want essentially the same model that you do will result in the ultimate abandonment of that structure.  To preserve it, you need to support gay marriage and its commitment to the nuclear family concept.

The 3rd Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     The Bible     The Bible has been wielded like a weapon, mislabeled as legalistic, paternalistic constitutional “laws” , and simplistically anointed as “The” word of God.  It has become a target for intense scrutiny.

The Bible will be degraded under examination. Why?  Because everything its detractors say about it is true.  It was constructed from thousands of sources and there were hundreds of versions, and a single one of those was translated and then later re-translated with prejudicial intentions another hundred times over.   Many who were the “wisdom”  behind all this interpretation were the same ones who tortured, launched Crusades, disparaged common science and fed their own greed.

The Bible has spiritual, historical and inspirational merit, but by continuing to hold it up as the sole source of their anti-marriage agenda, Born Again Christians will tarnish the Bible’s reputation forever.

The 2nd Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     Jesus Christ     Christians are to embody Christ as the Savior and light to the world. Through participation in endeavors like fighting gay marriage, Christians have failed in this mandate.  Miserably.  It is not an exaggeration to say that not only are non-believers not attracted to Christ because of works by His followers, they are actively repelled.

Your most important spiritual purpose is at stake here.  By supporting gay marriage, you live Christ’s second commandment…and begin the process of igniting the Truth and Love tin which you believe into the experience of others.

The   Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     Your own character.          Jesus gave the single touchstone to the integrity of a person:  “by their fruits shall ye know them”.  By opposing gay marriage, Born Again Christians have demonstrated rotten fruit.  If they were to “win”, there are no winners.  Gay families would exist and struggle.  Teens would continue to feel demonized and commit suicide.  Born Again Christians have the option to have the character of charity and generosity or the character of someone like this man spewing condemnation and hate Which of these people do you want to be?

I’ll look forward to our next cup of coffee.

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A Gay Dad Sounds Off on Ten Reasons Why Born Again Christians Should Be Fighting For Gay Marriage

Part one: reasons ten through six…the lifestyle benefits

Ten Reasons

In raising my kids, I have to apply certain moral principles—rules to live by.  Most of those derive from my own sense of right and wrong, and the foundation I have.  The golden rule, be willing to learn, help others, don’t judge….I pass these to my boys not because I am a Christian, which I am, but because these principles are right.

It is from that perspective that I have difficulty understanding the issue of “gay marriage” and the enormous faction of Born-again Christians against it.  From my simple parental admonishments derived from the basics of Christianity, I don’t get it.  Born again Christians should be at the forefront fighting FOR marriage equality, not against it.

Here are the first of ten benefits I believe Born Again Christians would derive should they support marriage equality.

Obviously, if the anti-marriage sentiment Is based on the  six “clobber” verses in the Bible, the practice of citing out of context passages and claiming they are “God’s Word” without principle or logic behind them, these benefits won’t be realized.  But such proof-texting  is not spiritual law, it is superstition.

So.  This is me… sitting down with you.  Buying you a cup of coffee.  Telling you that I love and respect you, that I do not think you have hate in your heart, and I don’t think you are afraid of gay people.

I am afraid for you, … and this is an intervention.  You are not working in your own interest.  You are, in fact on the road to demolish the things which mean the most to you.  I do not want that to happen.  So, I humbly offer you these ten benefits that hang in the balance on why you need to get up, out and vehemently demand the opportunity of marriage for your gay neighbor.

The 10th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay MarriageCritical Thinking and Idealism vs. Judgmentalism       You know it, and I know it.  We are not to judge.  Judgment is God’s.. .the Bible tells us this directly, emphatically, and frequently.  It is not in some vague story, it says it point blank.  There is a reason the Bible is right on this.  When one judges, one stops thinking.  Digging into the realities and seeing the gray areas give way to projecting our own insecurities onto others.  Fight for gay marriage, and see what you learn in the process.

The 9th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:  To Save the Institution of Marriage.    Marriage IS in trouble.  Less people are doing it, and more people are disrespecting it.  You know in your heart that same gendered people marrying in Boston or Spain has not had an effect over your personal marriage any more than easy divorces with ex-spouse, new-spouse alimony support systems resembling   defacto polygamy have.  But those latter marriages SHOULD be the ones that you worry about.  There is a group of people heralding the virtues of marriage and honoring it…you should be supporting them.

The 8th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:  Romantic Love.      Many people dream of their soul mate…that one person whose presence in your life is pure kismet…and act of God, bringing the exact right person to you who loves and adores you for who you are… who wines and dines you with flowers, music, candy and wonder.  The person who is the first you want to see in the morning, and the last person you want to see at night. The spirit of romance does not thrive in some exclusivity vacuum.  By supporting gay marriage when you reinforce the right to strive to be married to the person of one’s dreams, you earn the right to strive for the person of your dreams…if you have not already found them.

The 7th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     The Good Samaritan.     My sons love that story.  It tells of the true hero who  stepped up when he did not have to.  You aren’t being the Good Samaritan.  In fact, with Chick-Fil-A on your breath, you are being kind of mean.  Bring back the Good Samaritan…BE the Good Samaritan.

The 6th Most Important Reason Why a Born Again Christian Should Fight for Gay Marriage:     Championing for Disenfranchised Children.    In a generation, people will wonder why you even bothered fighting against gay marriage—or worse, what kind of monsters you were to want to deprive gay families from having it.  No one will think that you held any ideals of being for the lives of children.  That is an issue that can be yours to win.   Today, this minute, there are over 100,000 children in the United States that are unwanted and have not been chosen for adoption, most languishing in foster care.

So, what is my point in regard to gay marriage?  Born Again Christians looking to advocate for children need to step up.

We need thousands of homes to warmly take in these children needing permanent love.  Where will they come from?    From all the gay couples you support marrying.   So, be pro-gay marriage, and it will weave into your most effective child rescuing strategy to date.

These first five benefits would re-establish the Christian as the man or woman of warmth and compassion.  The one to help make marriages work and be infused with romance.  Christians would be the developers of loving families, not their adversaries.  How great would THAT be?

Next up are the most important five reasons for a Born Again Christian to support gay marriage:  the save-your-soul benefits.

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A Religious Challenge!

Good Signs Sunday

Religious Challenge

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Common Sense…..Not so common

Cat on a ToiletWe all know what common sense is, but how many of us actually has it?
I heard all kinds of things referring to common sense when I was a kid…..
You either have it or you don’t-
Sense enough to come out of the rain-
Not a lick of common sense-
And my father’s personal favorite…He/She doesn’t have the sense to pour piss out of their boot.
Now when I was a kid, I’ll admit, I really didn’t care or know what all of it meant. But then kids and common sense are things that don’t necessarily go together. That’s okay and how it should be, it’s adults I’m talking about. Now that I am an adult, with more years and life experience under my belt than I care to mention, I understand…common sense isn’t all that common.

Common sense tells us if global warming is a result, for the most part, of humans, then we can fix or change that, and yet we do very little. Third on the list, right behind carbon dioxide emissions from burning gasoline for transportation and carbon dioxide from fossil fuel power plants is methane gas. A huge contributor is livestock, and one of the biggest factors in most major health issues is eating meat and processed foods, common sense should be all over this. If we cut way down on livestock, and eating meats, not only will we help cut down on methane gas emissions, we just might be healthier. But we also have science to back us up on this…

http://planetsave.com/2009/06/07/global-warming-effects-and-causes-a-top-10-list
http://www.forksoverknives.com
http://ivn.us/clean-money-clean-energy/2012/08/16/koch-funded-study-finds-global-warming-is-real

Another example of common sense about environment involves the care and preservation of top predators. Wolves, they are a hot button topic and happen to be a passion of mine. With the delisting from the endangered list and federal protection gone due to a sneaky rider that was included in a budget bill that passed, wolves are once again at the mercy of the states and humans. Reluctantly and with much moaning and complaining from most of us, we study history and learn about the past. One of the reasons is so we don’t make the same mistakes again. And yet, here we are. Wolves were once nearly wiped out in the lower 48. Due to the reintroduction to Yellowstone National Park and Idaho, and a little migration from Canada on their own, wolves were making a comeback. Now, once again, they are on the hit list. Hunters and ranchers would have you believe that wolves are the next plague. The truth is wolves account for less than 1% of livestock losses. Disease, illness, birthing problems and weather are the biggest sources of livestock mortality. As for wolves and deer, elk etc., wolves for the most part, kill the weak, sick, and old, while hunters kill the biggest, healthiest, strongest and the ones who are breeding. Wolves play a very important role in our ecosystem, they are not the monsters they have been made out to be. And you can call me crazy but aren’t the wolves only doing exactly what humans want to do to the livestock and elk, deer, etc.,..hunt, kill and eat them? Only much less of it! And again we have science backing up what common sense tells us, we need the wolves.

http://www,missionwolf.com/page/wild-wolf-history
http://www.wildearthguardians.org/site/Page

I just have one example I’m going to use as a purely political point.  I feel it makes the point for the need of common sense extremely well. I’m referring to the issue that went on for far too long, and I just heard mention of it again recently, and that is President Obama’s birth certificate. Does anyone honestly believe that some Joe or Jane in the middle of the country or even Donald Trump found some smoking gun? Don’t you think that the powers that be (the republicans), who have always been opposed to Obama would have found that smoking gun long before he was even a candidate? With all the resources they have at their disposal- namely, the entire United States government, it would have been very easy. They could have stopped him from even running. But no, we are supposed to believe that these random people or Donald Trump found something that any and all government agencies couldn’t. Really? Come on people!

But the thing that really makes me crazy is the whole gay debate. How this is even a debate is beyond me—THEY EXIST!!

And for those that like to say homosexuality is unnatural, here are the definitions of natural and unnatural……

*** nat•u•ral   /ˈnætʃərəl, ˈnætʃrəl/ Show Spelled[nach-er-uhl, nach-ruhl] Show IPA adjective 1. existing in or formed by nature ( opposed to artificial): a natural bridge. 2. based on the state of things in nature; constituted by nature: Growth is a natural process. 3. of or pertaining to nature or the universe: natural beauty. 4. of, pertaining to, or occupied with the study of natural science: conducting natural experiments. 5. in a state of nature; uncultivated, as land.

***un•nat•u•ral/ˌənˈnaCH(ə)rəl/Adjective:Contrary to the ordinary course of nature; abnormal.Not existing in nature; artificial.

So as you can see by the definition of natural, existing in or formed by nature, gay people certainly are “natural”. Since ALL people are born from an egg and a sperm and not created in some factory, we can’t get more natural than that. And since gay people DO exist in nature that means the “unnatural” definition is null. Or, as I was told by one man, “it’s not homosexuality that is unnatural; it’s the act that they do that is unnatural”. WOW- what “act” is that exactly, because heterosexuals can and do those same “acts”. And it isn’t one act or any number of acts that makes someone homosexual or heterosexual, it is just who they are, whether they are acting on it or not. And the reasoning of procreation is just as crazy, because as we all know not every sexual act between heterosexuals is for procreation.

For me one of the worst things I’ve heard is that they chose to be gay, this rationale is so lacking in any kind of sense, common or otherwise. Do you honestly believe that the millions of gay people on our planet would chose to be belittled, teased, bullied, tormented, picketed, denied basic human rights, some shunned and turned away by their own families, abused, beaten or killed? And still, if you are ridiculous enough to believe it is a choice and you don’t like homosexuality, by all means, DON’T CHOOSE IT!!

Then there are those that say, “But the bible says that homosexuality is a sin”. Well I believe it goes back to the whole natural, unnatural thing, and we already covered that. But nowhere does Christ talk about homosexuality being a sin. What Christ did say is, “You shall love the Lord your God, with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your might” and “You shall love your neighbor as yourself” (Mt 22:36). These were his two great commands to us, and there was no “love your neighbor except gays, beggars, thieves, or prostitutes etc.” He also said, “For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and the measure you use, it will be measured to you” (Mt 7:2).

When we talk about marriage equality, this is not a religious issue but a civil one, and should be protected legally and under our constitution, which states all men are created equal and have the right for life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. How can a country that was founded on the basis of and for religious freedoms then turn around and use that same religious freedom to deny anyone the right to marry? If you don’t want to marry someone in your church that’s fine. But to deny civil marriage to a group using religious arguments is just hypocritical. You can’t claim you want the right and freedom to practice your religion without interference from the state or government and then use that same freedom, granted you, to deny another’s basic civil right to love and marry. And everyone does not share the same beliefs, some have no religious beliefs, so you are denying marriage under the assumption everyone shares the same beliefs, which clearly we know, is simply not true.
A same sex couple marrying does nothing to hurt or change the sanctity of a traditional marriage. It doesn’t affect it at all. No one can hurt or change your marriage except for those in that marriage. Everyone is responsible for their own actions, not for another’s actions. That is like me saying Newt Gingrich’s cheating and leaving a sick wife for another woman will somehow damage my marriage or the sanctity of marriage as a whole, ludicrous. What has done more to ruin the sanctity of marriage is heterosexual marriages, with all the lying, cheating, abuses and at a 50% divorce rate in the U.S. making any kind of profound claim about the sanctity of marriage or that its demise will come from same sex marriage is absurd. And dare I say that I believe the number of conservative Christians who have been caught with their pants down, so to speak, have done more than enough damage. Well, well, I guess I do dare. But again I say if you don’t want to use common sense and you somehow still believe that same sex marriage will hurt you- DON’T HAVE ONE, and if you are ever invited to one, please DON’T GO!

This isn’t rocket science folks, just good ole common sense. You don’t have to like or agree with everyone, all the time, but a little common courtesy and some basic respect can go a long way towards a better world, or at least our small corner of it.

So at the end of the day, if we all just used a little common sense, the planet and animals would be happier, healthier and alive and we just might be happier, healthier and live longer too.

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They Walk Among Us

They walk amongst us.Homosexuality crosses all barriers. Gay and lesbian people are found in all religions, all countries, all skin colors and nationalities.  It is part of all people, all cultures.  I listened to a bit of a sermon by a preacher whose name I cannot (and would prefer not to) recall, and his idea was to take all the gay men and lock them in a electrified fenced area, and take all the gay women and lock them in a separate electrified fenced area.  Give them food, of course, he said, he wouldn’t want to be cruel. Right.  But his thought process was that soon they would all die off, because they couldn’t reproduce, and that would be the way to get rid of all of the homosexuals.  Is this man really so dense that he doesn’t realize that homosexuals are being born FROM heterosexual couples, all over the world, EVERY single day?

Being gay is not some new trend. It’s not some cult trying to entice the youth to bring in more members.  It is born into a person, just like heterosexuality (or bi-sexuality). Homosexuality has been documented in history for thousands of years.  And it has not always been considered the horror that it is touted to be in this day and age.  A gay man or lesbian woman is no different than anyone else other than who they are attracted to, who they fall in love with, and who they may, one way or another, have a family with.  Falling in love, and being in love and committing yourself in love to another person, is a wonderful and joyous thing, it is not evil or sinful.

I have a hard time understanding the anti-gay stance.  Even if it is your belief that it is a sin, I don’t get how angry and upset people get about the thought of someone being gay.  Those same people who believe it to be a sin based on their religion, sin every day.  In fact, by their own beliefs, they sin by judging gays for being sinners, because judgment is God’s job.  Does it stem from people’s desire to point out what someone else is doing “wrong” so that they can feel superior?  I get it that being gay doesn’t feel right for THEM, but there are many things born into one person that are not born into another.  Some people are tall, some are short, some love coconut, while some (such as myself) hate it.  Some people have beautiful voices, and some can’t sing to save their lives.  We are all different, but that doesn’t make any of us wrong because of those differences.

What I really don’t get is, why the big hubbub about gays when there are so many actual truly horrific travesties being committed in the world every day?  What is the intensity all about?  We are talking about two consenting people loving one another.  There is no-one being harmed, but instead, there are people being loved and cared about.  These fellow human beings are part of our everyday lives and are really no different than you and I.

They are co-workers who lighten our load on the job, our clergy who speak to us about the importance of following the advice of Jesus to love one another.  Some are police and fire fighters who risk their lives to serve and protect us and our loved ones.  They are our neighbors who bring over chicken soup when we are sick, and watch our house while we’re away.  That adorable paper boy who is so sweet and thoughtful, or the helpful grocery store clerk, either or both could be gay.  We all interact with them daily as our teachers, lawyers, artists, engineers, writers, doctors, and military soldiers .  They are our sisters, our brothers, our uncles & aunts.  They are Moms and Dads who love their kids.  They help out at PTA, get immunizations for their children, volunteer at the food bank, and pay their taxes.  These are our fellow human beings.  They have the desire to love and be loved just like everyone else.  And that is a good thing.

I am deeply saddened about a young woman I know who is being condemned and disowned by her family because she has come out as a lesbian.  She is a wonderful unique soul, an accomplished musician, an excellent student, a dedicated life guard.  She has been a kind and loving girl her entire life, a deeply committed Christian, and now that her family has learned this about her, they are behaving as if she is someone completely different.  Having four children of my own, I cannot imagine ever turning away from them in this manner.  It is unthinkable.  I worry about this young woman, and the toll this is taking on her.  I know of too many gay youths who have committed suicide in the face of this kind of turmoil.

Love and acceptance of fellow human beings is what being human is all about.

I will close with a quote from Vietnam Veteran, Leonard Matlovich, who was awarded a Purple Heart for valor in the Vietnam War, by the Air Force.  Then it was discovered he was gay. Mr. Matlovich said, “When I was in the military they gave me a medal for killing two men, and a discharge for loving one”.

I cannot see the logic in this.  Can anyone else?

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The Homosexuality Question, Part III: Pro-Marriage Equality…Because the Bible Tells Me So?

Bible gay hatAll six of the passages of the Bible that address gay and lesbian behavior were shortly rebutted in my first blog post. I do hope that those who would like to know more check out the video link to a most excellent speech I appended to the bottom of that page. I’m going to shamelessly borrow from that guy again in this post.

Relationships okay?

While reading through the six passages, did you notice that all of them are negative in tone? Turns out, so is the Bible GENERALLY, when it comes to sex. This is because most of the time when the Bible talks about sex, it’s talking about adultery, orgies, rape, prostitution and exploitation. Sex between married partners was rarely described, just generally assumed. Sex between same-sex loving partners was never described (exegesists like to argue that one, especially between Daniel and Ashpenaz) OR assumed anywhere in the Bible. Though there are several possibly gay relationships in the form of David and Jonathan, Ruth and Naomi, and Daniel and Ashpenaz, these could-be unions are all described positively, as was the relationship of the Roman Centurion and his pais, which I discussed in my second blog post. The take-away here, is that the Bible never once condemned anyone’s loving same-sex relationship. Not once. So, there is one biblical reason to be pro-LGBT, and pro-marriage equality in particular, though a lack of a negative isn’t the best biblical foundation. Don’t worry it gets better.

“It is not good for man to be alone”

Genesis 2:18: “It is not good for man to be alone” This is the first thing out of God’s mouth after he finished Creation, and the very first thing he hadn’t proclaimed to be either “good”, or “very good”. Then He said “I will make a helper suitable for him.” But that’s not what God did next. God then brought all the animals to Adam for naming, and after THAT, God made Eve out of Adam’s rib as he slept, as no helper was found during the naming. I don’t know about you, but I find that part a little sick. Finding a helper amongst the animals, is that bestiality? (edit 11/16/12: This WAS actually my question when I first read this passage in my Christian High School a couple decades ago…I get more flak for this part…seems to make some Christians see red and stop reading. Don’t stop!) Probably not, as sex is generally understood by theologians to be a product of the Fall. Well, it didn’t turn out that way, as Eve showed up shortly thereafter, but can you conclude from this weird part of the story that God is really not all that addicted to the idea that Adam’s perfect partner was a woman? One thing you CAN conclude from the story between the creation of Man and the creation of Woman, is that we should find our perfect partner, the one who completes us, as perfect as Eve was for Adam, but NOT “Adam’s choice”, YOUR choice. And we should do this because, as God said, it is not good for man to be alone. Which is to say, mankind. To insist that for gay people, they must never look for their perfect partner, and if they find one, to turn away, that they should pick up their cross and walk, because no one is given more than they can bear…despite the extensive and growing pile of evidence of bad fruits this biblical interpretation bears…is to deny the very first pronouncement about mankind that God ever made. And ironically, it sets gay people on a tragically weird little pedestal, expecting gays and lesbians to be involuntarily committed to a level of celibacy that only the Catholic church is insane enough to demand only of their own servants of God…and look at the bad fruits THAT’S borne over the years!

“Better to marry than to burn”

Paul had a problem in Corinth. They had several issues, but one of them was sexual immorality. The early Church of Paul’s time espoused and encouraged celibacy for everyone, but not everyone seemed able to follow through on that. Here is some of what he wrote to them to address their problem:

1 Corinthians 7:1-9 “Now for the matters you wrote about: “It is good for a man not to have sexual relations with a woman.” But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband. The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. The wife does not have authority over her own body but yields it to her husband. In the same way, the husband does not have authority over his own body but yields it to his wife. Do not deprive each other except perhaps by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control. I say this as a concession, not as a command. I wish that all of you were as I am. But each of you has your own gift from God; one has this gift, another has that.
“Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I do. But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.”

So, marriage is the prescription for anyone with a sex drive and no talent for celibacy. Sounds great! Sign us LGBT’s up! A lot of us have been waiting for years and years to get that particular prescription filled. As long is it’s not available, you are withholding the cure for sexual immorality and castigating us FOR the resulting sexual immorality while ignoring the lesson of good fruits in the process.

And now, a word from J.C…

Matthew 19:1-12 When Jesus had finished saying these things, he left Galilee and went into the region of Judea to the other side of the Jordan. Large crowds followed him, and he healed them there.
Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”
“Haven’t you read,” he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’ and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.”
“Why then,” they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”
Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
The disciples said to him, “If this is the situation between a husband and wife, it is better not to marry.”
Jesus replied, “Not everyone can accept this word, but only those to whom it has been given. For there are eunuchs who were born that way, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by others—and there are those who choose to live like eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. The one who can accept this should accept it.”

At the end of a discussion about marriage and divorce, Jesus chooses to bring up eunuchs? And three types! What’s with that? The second and the third types of eunuchs are fairly easy to understand, but what about the born eunuchs? Many modern Christians want to believe that a born eunuch is someone with a deformity that precludes their sexual capability, but some historians believe and a few ancient source materials indicate that born eunuchs were men who lacked any desire for women, at all. They were as trusted as the man-made variety around ancient harems and served alongside those unfortunates for a thousand years, until the 4th century, when the born eunuch category was abruptly phased out in order to reclassify them as men, who would then be subject to sodomy law. Previously, the only people subject to sodomy laws were citizens who had receptive anal intercourse and anyone who would do that to a citizen, whom they thought of as a rapist. Men who could not abide at least occasional sex with a woman didn’t make the citizenship requirements and were therefore exempted.

What this means, is that Jesus was well aware of what the gay community today would call a “golden boy”, a virgin to women, and exempted them from heterosexual marriage…but declined to restrict them in any way like he did with heterosexually married people! Still, I think I’d rather get married, myself.

Let’s recap: The Bible is not negative anywhere in it about loving same-sex relationships. God understands that it’s not good to force people to remain unpartnered. Any people. Paul understands if one has no inclination toward celibacy, they should marry. And Jesus understands gay men should never marry women. Sounds like a recipe for biblically approved marriage equality to me!

Other posts in the series:

(Part I) The Homosexuality Question, Answered: Not A Sin

The Homosexuality Question, Part II: Jesus DID Say Something

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A Letter to My Boys….

A Letter to My Boys....

Excerpt from “A Gay Dad’s Perspective…”

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It’s a Good Sign!

Sunday is “It’s a Good Sign!” day.

Soul Lake

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